“Love begins in the belly.” Pregnancy is one of the most beautiful journeys for a woman. It is a universal gift for a child to hear the voice of its mother from the inside out. Pregnancy bonding lays the foundation for a baby that is filled with love. But what happens when love hurts from the inside out?
The National Library of Medicine says that violence against women has a devastating effect on women’s sexual and reproductive health and affects the health of their children. Violence can begin to escalate in pregnancy and has significant consequences for woman, fetus, and child.
October was Domestic Violence Awareness Month. According to statistics in Washington State, the rate of all pregnancy-associated deaths for non-Hispanic Black people and non-Hispanic Native Hawaiian and Pacific Island people was more than 2.5 times the corresponding rate for non-Hispanic white people.
Domestic Violence has profound and specific impacts on women of color during and after pregnancy, there are health risks, mental health consequences, socioeconomic challenges, impact on maternal and infant health postpartum, and barriers to support and find resources.
Addressing domestic violence among women of color, especially during and after pregnancy, requires culturally competent care, improved access to mental health resources, and systemic changes to reduce racial and economic inequalities.
Surviving domestic violence is a journey, it’s not just about enduring. It’s about rising above the shadows of pain to rediscover the light within. It’s about taking every step toward freedom and having a courageous act of reclaiming one’s life! Taking each day as an opportunity to rebuild, renew, and do more than survive but thrive! This journey is a testament to resilience, hope, and the unbreakable strength of the human spirit to stand up and say, “I remember, but it doesn’t hurt anymore.”
Shades of Motherhood Network is a place that addresses many issues regarding maternal health where women can come and find a safe space, to share their journeys and find resources such as support groups and organizations dedicated to helping survivors of domestic violence. We are a place where you can seek support and build a new community. Healing doesn’t happen in isolation. We want you to know that reaching out for help is not a weakness, it’s a sign of wisdom and strength. Connecting with others who understand your experience can provide a sense of community and remind you that you are not alone on this journey.
If you need help, here are a few local resources:
MiA Mujeres in Action: (509) 869-0876
YWCA Spokane Helpline: (509) 326-2255 or text: (509) 220-3275
Lutheran Social Services: (509) 747-8224 or text: (509) 624-7273
Surviving domestic violence is not just about escaping harm; it’s about embracing the freedom to live a life that reflects your true worth. It’s about reclaiming your power, finding joy, and building a future filled with love and peace.
Remember there is a beacon of hope, your best days are still ahead.